January 05, 2015
I was never the type to make new year's resolutions because I know that somewhere along the way, I'm gonna forget making such resolutions. But for this year, I feel the need to make such.
Here are my resolutions for the year:
1. Do what you want and do it NOW.
For the past weeks, I've been anxious about my future; what will I do after graduating, what do I want to do for the rest of my life, etc. Now I realize that a lot can change in the future and sometimes there's nothing I can do about it. I'm not saying that I should just let my life slip by, no. You should do what you can about the future (e.g. graduate from college to get a job), and don't let those things that you cannot control (like finding out what you want to do for the rest of your life) scare you. Live in the "now" but don't forget about the future.
2. Make smart investments
Investments aren't limited to money, we also invest with time. Time for our friends, family, academics, leisure, etc. 2014 was a roller coaster ride for me (especially in terms of social support) Which is why I will make it a point to make proper investments this year in order to avoid such instance again. As selfish as it may sound, this year will be about "ME". I need to fix myself before I can fix others.
I only made 2 resolutions because these are the main things that have been bothering me last year. I want to grow more as a person this year and if I follow these resolutions, I believe that I will be able to achieve such before the year ends.
Tuesday, January 6, 2015
Tuesday, December 16, 2014
Quarter Life Crisis
December 17, 2014
For the past weeks, I've been feeling lost, as if I didn't know what to do in life anymore. I felt scared, of what I was going to do with my life. In turn, it suddenly made me want to travel the city, the country, and the world, just to get out of this place and somehow find myself. I know it sounds tumblr-ish, but it feels like the best remedy to what I'm feeling right now.
Am I depressed?
Probably not. Eating spaghetti still makes me happy, so depression is out of the picture.
Am I being immature about it?
maybe? it seems like I don't want to face the uncertainty of the future but in reality, I actually love uncertainty. I never thought that I'd get into psychology or get into sports like Dragon Boat or Trapeze. I know first hand that there are things in life that are meant for you that you do not know as of the moment, therefore making uncertainty actually a good thing.
I think the thing I'm having a problem with is commitment.
With graduation coming near, I'm going to have to make choices, choices that will direct me to what I want to fulfill in life. As of now, I'm having difficulties choosing between taking up Master's or continue working at Trapeze. Trapeze makes me happy as of the moment, but I also want to become a researcher in the future. I've thought of taking both at the same time, but with the late schedule of both, it isn't possible. Time is running out and I have to choose one or the other eventually.
With these turn of events I now fully understand that this single lifetime isn't enough. I want to experience the most that life can offer, whether it be extreme sports, or as simple as fishing with nets. I hate how some experiences are limited because of one's socio-economic status. I mean, why can't I learn how to fish like the fisher men? because its what poor people do? fuck that. I want to learn and I'm frustrated that I don't know how to learn it. Its not like I know any fishermen around. Or I also want to learn how to operate those cranes they use in construction sites. Okay, maybe its understandable that this kind of experience isn't open to everyone but still, we shouldn't discriminate because experiences shouldn't be limited do just a certain class. Anyways, the point is that there's a lot of things that I want to experience but I just don't know where to start.
I'm confused, and scared, and I just want to know what to do with my life.
For the past weeks, I've been feeling lost, as if I didn't know what to do in life anymore. I felt scared, of what I was going to do with my life. In turn, it suddenly made me want to travel the city, the country, and the world, just to get out of this place and somehow find myself. I know it sounds tumblr-ish, but it feels like the best remedy to what I'm feeling right now.
Am I depressed?
Probably not. Eating spaghetti still makes me happy, so depression is out of the picture.
Am I being immature about it?
maybe? it seems like I don't want to face the uncertainty of the future but in reality, I actually love uncertainty. I never thought that I'd get into psychology or get into sports like Dragon Boat or Trapeze. I know first hand that there are things in life that are meant for you that you do not know as of the moment, therefore making uncertainty actually a good thing.
I think the thing I'm having a problem with is commitment.
With graduation coming near, I'm going to have to make choices, choices that will direct me to what I want to fulfill in life. As of now, I'm having difficulties choosing between taking up Master's or continue working at Trapeze. Trapeze makes me happy as of the moment, but I also want to become a researcher in the future. I've thought of taking both at the same time, but with the late schedule of both, it isn't possible. Time is running out and I have to choose one or the other eventually.
With these turn of events I now fully understand that this single lifetime isn't enough. I want to experience the most that life can offer, whether it be extreme sports, or as simple as fishing with nets. I hate how some experiences are limited because of one's socio-economic status. I mean, why can't I learn how to fish like the fisher men? because its what poor people do? fuck that. I want to learn and I'm frustrated that I don't know how to learn it. Its not like I know any fishermen around. Or I also want to learn how to operate those cranes they use in construction sites. Okay, maybe its understandable that this kind of experience isn't open to everyone but still, we shouldn't discriminate because experiences shouldn't be limited do just a certain class. Anyways, the point is that there's a lot of things that I want to experience but I just don't know where to start.
I'm confused, and scared, and I just want to know what to do with my life.
Wednesday, November 19, 2014
Anxiety attacks
November 8, 2014
00:08
I'm so scared.
I'm scared of the future.
This isn't like me, I'm the 'Fuck it' or 'bahala na' kind of person. But with college ending soon, I've been thinking about my future more often. I'm happy with Trapeze and I plan to continue working there after college. But my family and friends disapprove of this. I don't care about what they have to say, but what I think is bothering me is that I feel like I haven't accomplished anything yet. I feel like I only have like a year or two to enjoy my youth then after that is the big world. The world wherein you're an adult and you have to do all those boring jobs in the office and such.
I don't know what to do with my life.
I don't even know what I want to be. I just, don't want to limit myself to one thing. I want to be a psychologist, researcher, trapeze artist, entrepreneur, etc. These are the things that I see myself becoming but I don't want to choose just one, because I love all.
Funny how I express myself here and not with my friends. I just can't seem to open up to them. I don't want to burden them with my problems and besides, I'm probably too busy fixing their problems. I'm probably a victim of compassion fatigue.
My proposed solution? Get away from the city and travel alone. Get lost in unfamiliar places, meet new people, understand new culture, find myself in the process.
It almost feels like I'm going to die soon.
No, I'm not suicidal. It's just that, I can't clearly see my future. at one angle, I'm a trapeze artist running my own rig, while at the other, I'm a researcher or a psychologist in a clinic.
This uncertainty is killing me.
00:08
I'm so scared.
I'm scared of the future.
This isn't like me, I'm the 'Fuck it' or 'bahala na' kind of person. But with college ending soon, I've been thinking about my future more often. I'm happy with Trapeze and I plan to continue working there after college. But my family and friends disapprove of this. I don't care about what they have to say, but what I think is bothering me is that I feel like I haven't accomplished anything yet. I feel like I only have like a year or two to enjoy my youth then after that is the big world. The world wherein you're an adult and you have to do all those boring jobs in the office and such.
I don't know what to do with my life.
I don't even know what I want to be. I just, don't want to limit myself to one thing. I want to be a psychologist, researcher, trapeze artist, entrepreneur, etc. These are the things that I see myself becoming but I don't want to choose just one, because I love all.
Funny how I express myself here and not with my friends. I just can't seem to open up to them. I don't want to burden them with my problems and besides, I'm probably too busy fixing their problems. I'm probably a victim of compassion fatigue.
My proposed solution? Get away from the city and travel alone. Get lost in unfamiliar places, meet new people, understand new culture, find myself in the process.
It almost feels like I'm going to die soon.
No, I'm not suicidal. It's just that, I can't clearly see my future. at one angle, I'm a trapeze artist running my own rig, while at the other, I'm a researcher or a psychologist in a clinic.
This uncertainty is killing me.
Friday, November 7, 2014
time travel
November 7, 2014
My hands finally opened up yesterday. I kept swinging yesterday and it was also my first time getting a return bar.
Its been a while since I posted because Trapeze and school work has been eating up most of my time. I hardly have time to condition myself at home or use my time to leisure on some projects, heck I don't even have time to go out with my friends (who aren't from the same school). It came to a point that one of my friends told me that I'm getting too busy and that I should spend time with my friends while I still can, because I won't be able to have such luxury when I start working already.
This made me think, am I getting myself so busy that I don't get to enjoy what's happening now? Well, I enjoy doing Trapeze, and I honestly want to do well in school especially in my thesis so, why am I doubting? I'm probably just scared that in the future, I'll regret what I haven't done in the past (like hanging out with my friends more often).
Is it poor time management? or messed up priorities? I think that I shouldn't expect much from the future because we can never really tell what will happen, I mean, I didn't expect dragon boat or Trapeze to get into my life. But then again, I shouldn't be too lax that I just go with the flow, I should at least have some direction in life. And in that direction, I could be led to another road. But still, I'm scared.
My hands finally opened up yesterday. I kept swinging yesterday and it was also my first time getting a return bar.
Its been a while since I posted because Trapeze and school work has been eating up most of my time. I hardly have time to condition myself at home or use my time to leisure on some projects, heck I don't even have time to go out with my friends (who aren't from the same school). It came to a point that one of my friends told me that I'm getting too busy and that I should spend time with my friends while I still can, because I won't be able to have such luxury when I start working already.
This made me think, am I getting myself so busy that I don't get to enjoy what's happening now? Well, I enjoy doing Trapeze, and I honestly want to do well in school especially in my thesis so, why am I doubting? I'm probably just scared that in the future, I'll regret what I haven't done in the past (like hanging out with my friends more often).
Is it poor time management? or messed up priorities? I think that I shouldn't expect much from the future because we can never really tell what will happen, I mean, I didn't expect dragon boat or Trapeze to get into my life. But then again, I shouldn't be too lax that I just go with the flow, I should at least have some direction in life. And in that direction, I could be led to another road. But still, I'm scared.
Thursday, August 21, 2014
Student cuts
August 20, 2014
I had to be at the Trapeze rig by 2:30 pm. I left the house at 11:30 am for traffic allowance and also because I wanted to mow the lawn. When I arrived at the BGC bus station at Ayala, I decided that maybe I should avail of the Tap Card since I often commute to BGC anyways.
I had to be at the Trapeze rig by 2:30 pm. I left the house at 11:30 am for traffic allowance and also because I wanted to mow the lawn. When I arrived at the BGC bus station at Ayala, I decided that maybe I should avail of the Tap Card since I often commute to BGC anyways.
I paid 150 Php (100 for load, 50 for deposit) for the card. I get charged 9.80 Php as opposed to the standard rate of 12 Php (Student Discount).
They asked for my student ID to verify my identity as a student, and then they gave me my Tap card. Halfway through the bus ride I realized that the counter lady forgot to give me back my ID (or I forgot to ask it back). So, I had to take the bus back to the Ayala Terminal. The trip going back took me an hour. It was already 12:30 pm when I arrived at the terminal. After getting my ID, it took me 30mins to get to the rig.
I was the first person to arrive at the rig. which wasn't surprising, since the call time is at 2:30 pm. So, I began mowing the lawn and cutting up the tall grass that was covering the lines. The only thing I didn't like about cutting the tall grass was that kuya Eduardo was scouting the spot where I was cutting the grass and he told me that he could hear a snake nearby. It scared me, but it gave me more reason to cut the grass.
During our first class, I got a cut while assisting at the board. I probably got it from the clips, but this is the first time that it has happened to me. And it hurts.
Hey look its Tinkerbell in the background
After our last class, I headed to Bam bam's place since camile and gab were there hanging out (and I needed a ride home). We played cards against humanity (which was a pretty sick game) and they had some alcoholic drinks. I passed on drinking alcohol coz I recently just got wasted ( and I don't want to feel wasted anytime soon). Gab got so drunk that he actually asked me if I could drive his pick-up for him.
Tinkerbell and Lucky fell asleep on my lap
Monday, August 18, 2014
Despedida of Dan
August 18, 2014
I got wasted last night. We had a despedida for Dan coz he's going back to Stockholm so we decided to drink at the trapeze. We did net races, balancing on the slack line, card games, etc. I vomited twice on the grass (I made sure I didn't vomit on our turf), and luckily I got a ride home. I probably scared my maid again by banging on her door, asking her to open the door.
When I woke up the next morning, my mom was scolding me already. Ugh, as if the hangover isn't enough of a punishment for me. I think vomit went up my nose coz everything smelled like alcohol to me. like, when I went downstairs, the kitchen smelled like wine. And then it smelled like tequila when I went to the bathroom. I pointed this out to my mom but she thought I was fooling around (as usual) and told me "tigilan mo nga ako danise!". haha
I don't get to post that often because trapeze is taking up most of my time, But I'm not complaining, I love trapeze.
I got wasted last night. We had a despedida for Dan coz he's going back to Stockholm so we decided to drink at the trapeze. We did net races, balancing on the slack line, card games, etc. I vomited twice on the grass (I made sure I didn't vomit on our turf), and luckily I got a ride home. I probably scared my maid again by banging on her door, asking her to open the door.
When I woke up the next morning, my mom was scolding me already. Ugh, as if the hangover isn't enough of a punishment for me. I think vomit went up my nose coz everything smelled like alcohol to me. like, when I went downstairs, the kitchen smelled like wine. And then it smelled like tequila when I went to the bathroom. I pointed this out to my mom but she thought I was fooling around (as usual) and told me "tigilan mo nga ako danise!". haha
I don't get to post that often because trapeze is taking up most of my time, But I'm not complaining, I love trapeze.
Sunday, August 3, 2014
Internship!
Aug 3, 2014
Today was my second day interning for Flying Trapeze Philippines. I was a bit shaky after my first swing, but I felt like I wanted to go up and do it all over again after a few swings. My whole body is aching right now because of futsal and trapeze, but its a good kinds of sore.. like the kind that you can feel like your muscles are forming.
During training I realized that I really do need to gain some pounds. There was this part during training that I had to hold on to my co-worker, and then I had to lean back so that he wouldn't fall, but since he was heavier than me, I ended up being pulled and eventually I had to let him go. Good thing the trainer was there to guide me and it didn't go as bad as it could have.
Also, I was finally able to do a knee hang glide! :D But, I wasn't able to land properly so.. I gotta work on that :p
I can't wait to go back and train again! This is like, THE BEST internship ever! :D
Today was my second day interning for Flying Trapeze Philippines. I was a bit shaky after my first swing, but I felt like I wanted to go up and do it all over again after a few swings. My whole body is aching right now because of futsal and trapeze, but its a good kinds of sore.. like the kind that you can feel like your muscles are forming.
During training I realized that I really do need to gain some pounds. There was this part during training that I had to hold on to my co-worker, and then I had to lean back so that he wouldn't fall, but since he was heavier than me, I ended up being pulled and eventually I had to let him go. Good thing the trainer was there to guide me and it didn't go as bad as it could have.
Also, I was finally able to do a knee hang glide! :D But, I wasn't able to land properly so.. I gotta work on that :p
I can't wait to go back and train again! This is like, THE BEST internship ever! :D
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